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K views · 0 comments. Explore a sensual gallery of 16 homoerotic portraits celebrating the beauty, desire, and intimacy of the male form—made for the LGBT+ gaze.

From awkward confessions to sweet gestures, you'll be smiling from ear to ear as you watch these school boys take the leap of love. So, sit back, relax, and enjoy the laughs and feels! Music. In a series of photographs, men from around the world kiss, hug, picnic and gaze into each others’ eyes. So far, more than 4, such images—all taken between the s and s—have been found.

Currently, our morning routine involves meditating on how incredibly productive gay realtor Nate Daniel Ward is from the moment he wakes up. A cozy bed, cuddles with the pup, and some. Posted February 24, Reviewed by Gary Drevitch. Gay men are liable to feel incredibly insecure over their masculinity, a kind of internalized homophobia that leads them to idolize 'masc 4 masc', 'gaybros' and [to] shame and oppress femme men.

They free themselves from self-doubt and escape from shame by humiliating someone else.

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A healthier way to deal with such shame is to take a closer look at positive not toxic masculine traits and to recognize the ways we actually do embody them. When you look at the traits and behaviors historically identified with masculinity, subtracting its most noxious and ultimately dysfunctional forms, gay men embody them in ways that have gone unrecognized.

In short, gay men are much more like straight men than we usually think. Men tend to have a stronger sex drive, to want more sexual partners, and to find casual sex more acceptable than women do. I speak in generalities here; not all men or all women fit these descriptions. Having a strong sex drive is a component of masculinity; gay and straight men feel drawn to different genders, but the drive is identical.

In large part, this is due to:. Whether straight or gay, the male body produces times more testosterone than the female body; it builds our muscles, grows hair on our faces and chests, deepens our voices, and affects our behavior. It tends to make us assertive, more narrowly focused, and more on the prowl for sex. It can also instill:. Physical bravery has historically been associated with manliness.

And as every gay man knows, coming out of the closet takes courage. You need courage to speak out for your rights in the face of hatred and intolerance. Gay and straight men have this courage in common. In a similar vein, they also tend toward:. Assertiveness and Self-Display. In a way that may at first seem counterintuitive, the gay man who draws attention to himself by flagrantly dressing in drag is behaving in an extremely manly way by seeking drama.

The injustice harms you, but in making an issue of it you claim that it affects others too. It's masculine protectiveness at its best. Manly men also speak out and want you to know they have something important to say. Manliness is not mere generalized pushiness but rather a claim on your attention. We men are such an opinionated bunch. Since the beginning of human history, men have been driven to compete, either in war, on the athletic field, or in the business world, where they continuously compete with other men and women for promotions, money, and proof of their success.

Competitiveness might be considered one of the defining features of masculinity. Gay men care just as much as straight men do about their social status and visible signs of their success. In The Velvet Rage , Alan Downs describes life in San Francisco and regular visits to the Napa Valley homes of wealthy gay men he knew, each house more beautiful than the last, the elegant dinner parties that took days to prepare, their fabulous vacations, collections of artwork, clothes, infinity pools, and so on.

I believe that this style of competition stems from the legacy of unresolved shame that lies deep within many gay men. Alan Downs agrees. I believe we need to reform our brand of competitiveness so we can all leave the playing field feeling good about ourselves.